Some resolution

Tackle the sms and chat addiction

Saya sudah kecanduan sms dan chat sampai pada tahap yang cukup serius (iya, merusak relasi, merasa insecure jika tidak chat maupun sms, etc). Karena itu, sedang berada dalam tahap melawan kecanduan tersebut. Keinginan untuk chat dan sms makin besar jika tingkat stress meningkat.

Project target: Free from SMS and chat addiction

Time: 1 month from 21st of May 2010

Target: Use them only for important things instead of merely chit-chat, get away from this “insecure” feeling when not doing that, cut their usage up to half.

Find some cheap ways to relax

The usual me, always got some stress-related problem to the extend that it disabled me to do things. hahaha…

Hmm…still finding the correct rescue kit for me.

Next things to try: acupunture, massage

Tackle dishonesty

Yup, seringkali saya tidak bisa jujur. Entah kepada diri saya sendiri maupun orang lain. Bahkan kepada Tuhan. Kenapa? Karena saya takut. Saya takut ini dan takut itu. Hingga akhirnya saya menutupi dengan menjawab dalam “politically correct” answer atau lebih parahnya lagi “white lie” dengan alasan ini itu.  Akhirnya? Kadang orang bisa menganggap saya plin plan, inconsistent, etc.

Target: Be more honest toward everyone including myself. So what if other people know that you are wrong, have mistakes, etc. Good friends will be there to correct you…overcome the fear.

Reduce impulsiveness

Yes, I’m impulsive. At times of stress I will become much more impulsive, which is bad and I know I often make a wrong decision due to this thing.

How to reduce: Wait. Before I make a big decission, I should let myself wait for at least one day before really did that.

~ by oliviawijaya on May 18, 2010.